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15 Feb 2023
Ghosting, the practice of ending a relationship or friendship by abruptly cutting off all communication without explanation, can be a deeply hurtful experience. But according to a new study by researchers Christina Leckfor and Natasha Wood, the emotional impact of ghosting may be magnified for people with a high need for closure.
Leckfor and Wood, who conducted their research at the University of Georgia, surveyed a group of participants about their experiences with ghosting and their level of need for closure - the desire for a definitive answer or explanation for uncertain situations. They found that nearly two-thirds of the participants have ghosted — ended a relationship by ignoring the other person, without offering a clear explanation — and have been ghosted. The study also showed that people with a higher need for closure were more likely to report feeling intense emotions such as anger, anxiety, and confusion when they were ghosted.
The findings highlight the importance of considering individual differences in coping with relationship and communication challenges. The research suggests that it is important to consider individual differences when examining the impact of ghosting on mental health and well-being. People who are highly intolerant of ambiguity and require definitive answers may be more likely to experience negative emotions following ghosting.
It also sheds light on the complex dynamics of ghosting, a behavior that has become increasingly common in the age of social media and online dating. While some people may see ghosting as a harmless way to avoid confrontation or spare someone's feelings, it can have a significant impact on the emotional well-being of the person being ghosted.
The findings of this study underscore the need for respectful and open communication, even when ending a relationship or friendship.